DOGS AND OWNERS BECOME TRUE COMPANIONS WITH MINDFUL LEADERSHIP

Mindful Leadership puts dogs first, decreases stress and fear, and opens the door for true companionship. Your reward is voluntary compliance and reliable, consistent good behavior. If the pooch feels safe and socially accepted AND has learned to obey and work for his person voluntarily, the owner is as happy as the dog; the whole social group, including children, and other canines and felines, is harmonious. My mission is to mentor owners to become mindful leaders, thereby guiding their four-legged companions into social belonging and emotional safety. That is what every dog deserves.
If you want to know how wild dogs behave, you study them in the wild! If you want to know how they behave in a human society, you study them there! Mindful Leadership is a result of many years of studying dogs in people's homes, in parks, on walks and humane societies, and learning about their psyche and behaviors from world renowned experts. Read my
biography
for details.
Learning began with Cedric, an aloof Great Pyrenees. We were total rookies and neither researched prior to our purchase, nor had an idea how to train. Cedric displayed worrisome behavior problems very early on, which we tried to solve with control based, heavy-handed methods, that were taught and recommend to us by an established training facility with an excellent reputation. Our attempts to “show Cedric who’s boss” not only failed, but forced him to react defensively. Bullied by me, he chose the weakest member of our family, our daughter, attacked and was unjustly euthanized at the age of 17-months. In my heart I still apologize for the way he was treated.
Although our first experience was traumatizing, I still longed for a canine companion. After some research into breeds, Baywolf, the Newfoundland, joined our small family of three. Bay was the complete opposite of Cedric: easy-going by nature; affectionate and not at all difficult. Convinced that dominant force teaches aggression, and because Bay was sweet and positive training was largely unknown, we didn’t train him at all. To the contrary: I, still feeling guilty about the mistakes made with Cedric, catered to Bay’s every whim. The result was a loving 140-pound brat who ran his own show. 4 years later, Davie, a sassy, energetic, charming, clever and manipulative Australian Shepherd puppy walked into our lives. Unlike Bay, she was not content with long walks and snuggling on the couch, but demanded our full attention and a job. As a rescue, she also came with behavior problems, despite her tender age of 16 weeks. Dominance training still wasn’t an option for me, but by then positive reinforcement had become more popular and I found a facility that trained with humor and force-free. We succeeded and I was hooked. Willkommen joined us 4 years after that as a 5-months old feral pup, who was humanely trapped near a rural garbage dump. Will, not imprinted by or socialized to humans, was extremely fearful, and clueless about life amongst a human society. The level of dogness she exhibited was new and challenging and accelerated my quest to find out “how dogs work”. I became increasingly more involved with humane societies, attended seminars and workshops, had numerous foster canines and did extensive literary research and field studies. I was always an avid reader. The journal I began with Will's arrival ignited my love for writing. My book
Dump Dog
is the result.
Today, I work and live in a log home in a small community in Nova Scotia. I continue to
help owners
achieve the best relationship they can have with their dog(s).
I CARE ABOUT MY DOGS - YOURS - AND DOGS AS A SPECIES!
My goal is to help as many mixed species social groups as I can to the same rewarding relationship I have my "girls".
Read
more about
Davie and Will
, and again by reading a selection of my published
columns about dogs

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